Simplicity and Complicated
Nowadays, people having more greater problems and crisis for their daily life. It doesn't see wheater about gender, age, physical and mentally. As what I study in my course, and also in my life, these may be come in a sudden, without expectations, and totally can make you heart attack sometimes. They have steps and plans for handling them, or terminating them. But it doesn't comes out when it is happens on informal enviroment.
Everyday we learn how to live for that day, with some challenges or tests which given by God(s). We having more experience actually. Why there were seniors, or society in old days, can take things easily? We always said that they are seniors, or else they are inteligent, they are smart, we cannot compare to them. But many people never said that: They think rationally, depending the situation, and THEY DARE TO TRY, OR TO DO IT.
What is think rationally? Obvious right? It is actually linked to depending the situation in a certain points. According to the situation, you should know what you should do. Like Feng Shui, experts are always try to find out, wheater each of the problems, will have a way to solve. In their philosophy, feng shui will never have problems that cannot be solve. In a very negative way to said, even cannot solve, but you can avoid and don't need to face it. As same as daily life, challenges and problems are always around us, but when we find for ways, did we find only a way, or several ways to handling it? Is there you only see one way, or there is still other ways that you cannot see, or you PRETENT you cannot see. There will be only one way, IF EVERYTHINGS ARE TOTALLY GONE OVER AND CANNOT RETURN. But if there is still a second choice, you should have think carefully. Because, some ways can be change, but some ways is fixed for your future. It may be not take you whole life, but I bet you also don't want to have a suffer period.
After you have planned the ways, it comes to think about your choice. Every crisis and problems are normally divide into 2 kinds: Physical and Mentally. Physical problems are actually the most easiest problems to solve, because once you know the problem clearly, you are just need to handling it directly. But it comes to mentally problems, like love, honestly it is complicated. Because most of the things are depends on the person's mind. You don't know what they think. But did you realize, they also don't know what you think. Why keep on those guessing games each other, and make the misunderstanding more deeper? Yes, it have to see what is the situation. There are also totally complicated cases. But sometimes, did you found that, is that you going to complicated the problems everytime they appear in front your eyes and sense? You are still haven't analyse what is going on, and you yell for God, and feel suffer within a minute. There is a phrase we called 当局者迷，旁观者清. People beside us may not totally understand what is our situation, but they are actually can see more clearer because they are not involved. Sometimes what they can see are what we are still blurring. You can blame them that not understand you, but don't forget to think yourself, is that you are more clearer than them? If it is, then why you still cannot handling the problems, while others are already think the solving way for you?
Finally, it comes to the most important part. You can think, you can planned, you can have all types of ways. But finally, will you do it? There are many plans you have make it, but many people always failed because they are not available to accomplish it. But in nowadays, problems are failed to solved, because mostly people are NOT GOING TO SOLVE IT. They just let it growing, and it grow to the danger stage, and people said that they already knew that cannot solve. But they never said that they regret to not to handling it when it haven't comes to "maturity" stage. Without agressive attitude, you never try to solve the problems and it will harm you directly or indirectly. Yes, you are worried about your ability, and others too. But there is only one thoery states that: You gain nothing if you never take any action. Just like when u doing exam, if you write something in the paper, you may gain a few marks, but if you leave it blank, for sure you get a zero. Same as solving problems, if you never try, how you know that it can or cannot be solve? Since problems are not predictable, how come you can predict the results of handling phase? That is a great lie to yourself.
One more thing that have to point out, it is MAKING DECISIONS. People are always suffering that making choices. Offers and miracle are appears when you make chocies. You can see many benifits, that can fullfill your demands, in physically and mentally. But there are also some sacrificed or loses in each of the choices. People are always choose depends on their sense and mentally decisions. But they never think about that, what is your reality situation needs. Something it is mentally look nice, it seems it is granted you the wishes that you dream for long time. And now it comes to you, but there will have some sacrificed. Some other choices are not providing you any dreams or wishes, but in a short term they can provide you the helps you demand, and won't harm your freedom or rights. So, what should you choose? I don't know, but if for me, I only will see in reality situation and make my decision. If sacrificed my freedoms to gain my dream, I rather kill myself, because there means that I going to volunteer in Hitler's or 秦始皇 controls.
Sometimes ambitions and dreams are just a motivation for you to sucess. Many people know that, they maybe not going to do what they dream or planned when they are small. So why you going to give up something more important, to fullfill something that just having one minute achievment? When you get the dream granted, but you still have long way to walk. You sure you can make it last long until when? Forever? Are you certain that you will have the wish always be with you until your death? IF THE WISHES IS STILL A DREAM, WHY YOU STILL WANT TO DREAM?
People likes to say, especially most of my secondary school friends: 讲就天下无敌，做就有心无力. Means that you only have a plan but never accomplish it, or not able to do it. In my opinion, without offence, most of the people now, they are not 有心无力，but 无心尽力. Those who have the mind to do it but failed, they are forgivable because they have try to do it. Those people who never take any actions, they are the one who are not to be forgivable. But in nowadays, people who laugh at me, or to those plan and talks a lot, they are the one who never take action. Once people get failure, they said they knew it. But once people sucess, they said people is just lucky.
So can you see that? Sometimes complicated things are actually not complicated. You feel blur because you are involved. There are many simple ways to solve, but depends that you want to take it or not. Things never have one phase, hard maths are not only can solve by complicated formulae. But once you lied yourself, don't blame anyone who has wrongly guide you. Because in the end, decisions are made by your own, not them.
Everyday we learn how to live for that day, with some challenges or tests which given by God(s). We having more experience actually. Why there were seniors, or society in old days, can take things easily? We always said that they are seniors, or else they are inteligent, they are smart, we cannot compare to them. But many people never said that: They think rationally, depending the situation, and THEY DARE TO TRY, OR TO DO IT.
What is think rationally? Obvious right? It is actually linked to depending the situation in a certain points. According to the situation, you should know what you should do. Like Feng Shui, experts are always try to find out, wheater each of the problems, will have a way to solve. In their philosophy, feng shui will never have problems that cannot be solve. In a very negative way to said, even cannot solve, but you can avoid and don't need to face it. As same as daily life, challenges and problems are always around us, but when we find for ways, did we find only a way, or several ways to handling it? Is there you only see one way, or there is still other ways that you cannot see, or you PRETENT you cannot see. There will be only one way, IF EVERYTHINGS ARE TOTALLY GONE OVER AND CANNOT RETURN. But if there is still a second choice, you should have think carefully. Because, some ways can be change, but some ways is fixed for your future. It may be not take you whole life, but I bet you also don't want to have a suffer period.
After you have planned the ways, it comes to think about your choice. Every crisis and problems are normally divide into 2 kinds: Physical and Mentally. Physical problems are actually the most easiest problems to solve, because once you know the problem clearly, you are just need to handling it directly. But it comes to mentally problems, like love, honestly it is complicated. Because most of the things are depends on the person's mind. You don't know what they think. But did you realize, they also don't know what you think. Why keep on those guessing games each other, and make the misunderstanding more deeper? Yes, it have to see what is the situation. There are also totally complicated cases. But sometimes, did you found that, is that you going to complicated the problems everytime they appear in front your eyes and sense? You are still haven't analyse what is going on, and you yell for God, and feel suffer within a minute. There is a phrase we called 当局者迷，旁观者清. People beside us may not totally understand what is our situation, but they are actually can see more clearer because they are not involved. Sometimes what they can see are what we are still blurring. You can blame them that not understand you, but don't forget to think yourself, is that you are more clearer than them? If it is, then why you still cannot handling the problems, while others are already think the solving way for you?
Finally, it comes to the most important part. You can think, you can planned, you can have all types of ways. But finally, will you do it? There are many plans you have make it, but many people always failed because they are not available to accomplish it. But in nowadays, problems are failed to solved, because mostly people are NOT GOING TO SOLVE IT. They just let it growing, and it grow to the danger stage, and people said that they already knew that cannot solve. But they never said that they regret to not to handling it when it haven't comes to "maturity" stage. Without agressive attitude, you never try to solve the problems and it will harm you directly or indirectly. Yes, you are worried about your ability, and others too. But there is only one thoery states that: You gain nothing if you never take any action. Just like when u doing exam, if you write something in the paper, you may gain a few marks, but if you leave it blank, for sure you get a zero. Same as solving problems, if you never try, how you know that it can or cannot be solve? Since problems are not predictable, how come you can predict the results of handling phase? That is a great lie to yourself.
One more thing that have to point out, it is MAKING DECISIONS. People are always suffering that making choices. Offers and miracle are appears when you make chocies. You can see many benifits, that can fullfill your demands, in physically and mentally. But there are also some sacrificed or loses in each of the choices. People are always choose depends on their sense and mentally decisions. But they never think about that, what is your reality situation needs. Something it is mentally look nice, it seems it is granted you the wishes that you dream for long time. And now it comes to you, but there will have some sacrificed. Some other choices are not providing you any dreams or wishes, but in a short term they can provide you the helps you demand, and won't harm your freedom or rights. So, what should you choose? I don't know, but if for me, I only will see in reality situation and make my decision. If sacrificed my freedoms to gain my dream, I rather kill myself, because there means that I going to volunteer in Hitler's or 秦始皇 controls.
Sometimes ambitions and dreams are just a motivation for you to sucess. Many people know that, they maybe not going to do what they dream or planned when they are small. So why you going to give up something more important, to fullfill something that just having one minute achievment? When you get the dream granted, but you still have long way to walk. You sure you can make it last long until when? Forever? Are you certain that you will have the wish always be with you until your death? IF THE WISHES IS STILL A DREAM, WHY YOU STILL WANT TO DREAM?
People likes to say, especially most of my secondary school friends: 讲就天下无敌，做就有心无力. Means that you only have a plan but never accomplish it, or not able to do it. In my opinion, without offence, most of the people now, they are not 有心无力，but 无心尽力. Those who have the mind to do it but failed, they are forgivable because they have try to do it. Those people who never take any actions, they are the one who are not to be forgivable. But in nowadays, people who laugh at me, or to those plan and talks a lot, they are the one who never take action. Once people get failure, they said they knew it. But once people sucess, they said people is just lucky.
So can you see that? Sometimes complicated things are actually not complicated. You feel blur because you are involved. There are many simple ways to solve, but depends that you want to take it or not. Things never have one phase, hard maths are not only can solve by complicated formulae. But once you lied yourself, don't blame anyone who has wrongly guide you. Because in the end, decisions are made by your own, not them.
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